Level Up and Feminine Energy (LUFE)
Inner Work. Outer Work. Class Aspirational.
Trick or Treaters cause a moral dilemma. Do you switch the lights off, becoming the ‘grinch’ of Hallowe’en? Are you swayed to buy gelatine filled Haribos as they are cheap and shows how cool and edgy you are to be OK with just a little bit of cruelty? Or do you begrudgingly pay the vegan tax? I'm here to show you how Hallowe'en is a great opportunity for easy and passive activism.
Read MoreVegan men are all unemployed, have dreads and smoke weed all day. Or are they? Can a masculine man, successful with money, fitness and family be vegan? I'm here to tell you not only can a masculine man be vegan but he just might have more testosterone and prowess than you.
Read MoreThere’s a belief among people who have never used online dating that if you behave in a classy and elegant way yourself, if you have appropriate photos and you aren’t unkind to anyone, that dodgy guys will be instantly repelled, meaning you’ll only messaged by decent, respectful guys offering you high quality date requests. This isn't true. This blog helps you gets the results you want from OLD.
Read MoreWhy do so many women today reject any notion of femininity? In wider society, it is largely disparaged. Inside the circle of femininity, many blame feminism for the state of the world and relations between women and men. In this blog I show you how to get the best of both worlds, how you can be both feminine and a feminist.
Read MoreGuys in their 20s aren't seeking marriage, most know that. But guys well into their 40s & 50s can also be in this phase of life, seeking spontaneity, thrills & fun. They want a wing woman for adventures, a girlfriend, but it's immaterial who she is. How can you screen them out or is it ever safe to date them? Will they ever want to get married?
Read MoreYou were on the cusp of engagement, everything was going so well, what happened? You can't ask for help as you'll get blamed, it have been your fault! Actually, relationships in the LUFE community imploding at the 11th hour is sadly very common & has kept me in business for years. In this blog I give tips to help minimise the risk of it happening to you.
Read More“If a guy responds to feminine energy when dating, then he must behave the same way when married”. This isn’t true. The strategies you have for dealing with bad behaviour from a guy in dating (pulling back, acting nonchalant, dating others, being pre-occupied with other things) don’t work in marriage. What can you do if your former doting boyfriend is now a complacent husband? All is not lost!
Read MoreAre you only getting low quality date requests despite your elegant photos online? Coffee date requests, walk in the park, when you really want fine dining? These requests won’t always be from dodgy guys. They won’t always have sexual undertones. There are opportunities that you, if skilled in the art of feminine communication, will be able to turn around. This blog shows you how to do it.
Read MoreAt first glance, the level up community’s obsession with appearance can seem really superficial. Isn’t beauty only skin deep? You might even feel irritated seeing the words ‘grooming’, ‘beauty’ and ‘fashion’. Regardless of what we think ‘ought’ to be true, the fact is looks matter. Much more than we care to admit. This blog goes into the science of why and how to use this to your advantage.
Read MoreMany women get into relationships for many reasons, boredom, being flattered, enjoying the attention, even free dinners! Trouble starts if the man has deal breakers the woman can’t accept, but she just can’f find it within herself to leave him. Instead she’ll nag him to change. This is hard work and an unhappy situation for all. This blog advises a dignified and brave alternative.
Read MoreThe widespread refusal of non vegan women to buy cosmetics that aren't cruelty free has transformed the beauty industry. You don't have to be vegan to make a difference. Back in the 1990s the options for vegan clothing were hippy, earth mother or vagrant. What if you wanted to look chic and feminine instead? This blog takes you through the modern world of vegan fur, leather and silk.
Read MoreLevelling up has three facets. Inner work, outer work and being class aspirational. This blog focuses on inner work, namely journaling, affirmations, meditation and exercise. Going beyond the cringe self-help mantras and delving into peer-reviewed science. Why these practises are effective and how they can help you as you level up.
Read MoreIn this blog I’m going to show how you can be successful in dating without ever giving up your Christian lifestyle or your vegan values, whether you are a Christian, a vegan or both.
Read MoreSome tips about how to navigate speed dating in a high value, classy and elegant way, elevating your position so you’re way ahead of the competition. Here are my ten tips about how to operate on a higher level than the majority of the population.
Read MoreSTART HERE! If you don’t know where to start, this blog is a list of just the absolute essentials of feminine energy dating. Of course, each piece of advice can be further explored with multiple possible scenarios explained, nuance and context introduced. Rather than get lost in the details though, I wanted to give you only the basics here.
Read MoreA man who is totally in love with you WILL pay off your debt for you, look after you and ensure you don’t have to work. HOWEVER and this is the big caveat, he won’t do this if he thinks you will just run up another debt again.
Read MoreMost of the female FIRE influencers pay no regard to fashion or beauty. Can you both keep levelling up (which is a perpetual journey that will never end) and save parsimoniously to invest and retire before the national retirement age?
If you take pride in your appearance and you’re on a Level Up journey, I urge you to consider including beauty vitamins as part of your routine. Here are my six recommendations.
Read MoreWhat to do if you’re a night owl married to an early bird or vice versa? The thing is, during dating this most likely won’t affect you. Once you're married and living together it becomes one of the most important issues you'll face. Read this blog for advice about how to navigate living on different time zones in the same house!
Read MoreHigh value dating never includes hanging out at someone's home or accepting last minute date requests. So what are the options when faced with a (limited) lockdown for a woman looking to date? I go through some choices in this blog.
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