Feminine Energy Dating - in a Nutshell
The Basics
The basics of feminine energy dating include a guy asking you out, travelling to your area and taking you on proper dates to a public venue. Classically, to a nice restaurant on a Saturday night although there are many other options that are acceptable. The gentleman pays for the date. Agreeing to last minute date requests, hanging out at someone’s home and answering texts in nanoseconds are all examples of low value behaviour. Not pacing the relationship by seeing the guy too often in early dating, not dating others and jumping from monogamous to monogamous relationship are not recommended either. Delay physical intimacy for as long as possible. Living with a guy before marriage is a grey area that can be risky.
Feminine Energy Dating - the Basics
If you’re new to feminine energy dating then here are the absolute basics:
* The gentleman asks the lady out
* The gentleman travels to the lady’s area
* Proper dates in a public venue
* A nice restaurant on a Saturday evening is ideal
* The gentleman pays for the date
Things to be wary of:
- Last minute dates
- Hanging out at somebody’s home
- Answering texts in nanoseconds (wait!)
- Seeing the gentleman more than once or twice per week in the early stages of dating
- Early exclusivity (before 6 months of dating) hardly ever benefits the lady
- Jumping from monogamous to monogamous relationship (enjoy the dating stage instead!)
- Delay physical intimacy for as long as possible, definitely not before exclusivity
- Cohabiting with a guy (without being married) can be risky
The Single Most Important Thing
The single most important thing you can do on this journey is ‘rotational date’, ideally keep a rotation of at least three suitors (with limited physical intimacy, but definitely no sex) at all times UNTIL you agree to exclusivity. I give advice throughout this blog and my social media about how you can do this and how to maintain all of the other ‘basics’ of dating mentioned above. I also have a book out where I dive deep into each aspect of feminine energy dating, giving you a roadmap with practical steps.
Essentially once you’ve decided to date in a ‘high value’ way, you have boundaries and standards for dating. You always were a woman of value before (even if before, you were behaving like a doormat with men). Now you’ve decided to actually honour your worth by being the embodiment of ‘high value’. If you have never dated in this type of ‘high value’ style before then use the guidelines I’ve written above as training wheels. All the time you’ll be working on developing your intuition, self-esteem and self-worth so that eventually you won’t need any guidance. If a guy is bad news you won’t need any book or blog to tell you. Equally, you’ll know how to interpret nuance and when accepting a last minute date or going against any of the above advice would be OK. When you’re just getting started though, I recommend using the above suggestions as your modus operandi.
You are a Woman of Value
Regardless of whatever you’ve done in the past, you were still a woman of value.
Now you’re choosing to honour your worth and embody the value you were born with.
Dating in a high value way means having standards and boundaries that you set yourself (but if you’re just getting started use the guidance I’ve written here)
Take this message home: You are worthy. You always were. Even if you were doing crazy and desperate things before, you were still deserving of the best. My desire for you isn’t for you to swing to the other extreme and start acting entitled, bratty or uppity around men. Throughout this website, my social media and my books, I’ve outlined ways to get what you want without ever needing to be unkind or rude to anyone. Even to silly men on dating apps or detractors that you’ll encounter on your way to the top. Perhaps in the past, you didn’t know how to do this, you weren’t educated in the ways of feminine energy or you weren’t in the right mind-set. It is my hope that my work is a spring board to help you in all aspects of your life, but particularly with romance.
Now the groundwork of the absolute basics has been laid, I’d love to help you on your journey.
Please leave me any comments or questions regarding your own quest into feminine energy dating.
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